We did it our way
Ah where to start, ok, me and the hubby met at uni almost 8 years ago, I was 22 & a single mum to an almost 5yo at the time, he had just turned 19. It started as a friendship that blossomed into love (although he says he knew from the first time he seen me that I was who he was going to spend the rest if his life with the sop) it almost wasn't though as I was weary of his age & me having a kid already & after he asked me out over good old man & I knocked him back I took a chance after pinning for him over the Christmas break. Love blossomed quickly when we gave it a go.
After 15 months together we had the unexpected news of tiny feet joining us, he at the time wanted to get married but I said no, he never asked just assumed that we should as I was having his baby. Along came dd2 and life carried on.
A few years later we decided to have another baby & in Dec 2012 we found out another was on the way this time I wanted to get married not long after the baby was due so we booked up to get married in Oct-2013 on inchcolm island in the fifth of the fourth in Scotland, after a stormy argument while pregnant that was cancelled (never make important decisions while pregnant lol) life went on but I did regret cancelling it always afterwards. We never got around to planning another & as it still stands today he has never asked me formally to marry him.